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Bathroom Sink

Last week we had the kids straight through for a week.  This means, that Cowboy and I barely had a second to sex it up.  Even at night the youngest crawled into our bed scared from watching Friday the 13th.  This would happen at any random time between 11PM and 4AM…..so our chances of getting it on were slim to none.   Then Cowboy got crazy.  While I was putting my face on in the bathroom, he snuck in, locked both doors and stripped down.  Before I knew it he had me up on the sink and we were going at it.  I thought it was so sexy that he took control (and also the risk of being heard or caught by the kids).  Although it was just a few quick minutes, I definitely didn’t need my blush for the day.  Rrrrawwr.

Have you ever gone at while people were within earshot?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Bangin’ to the 80’s

Normally we get it on without music.  This is never a conscious decision….it just happens that way.  The other night, I decided to play the iPod before we got to banging and just put it on shuffle.  A few minutes into our romp, my stripper song came on.  Followed by all of Cowboy’s favorite hair bands.  It put a bit of a damper (and some humor) onto our bang-fest!  I’ll have to make a playlist we put on for our next time so we don’t get distracted by Quiet Riot’s ‘Come On Feel the Noise’.

Have you ever had an awkward song come on during sex?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Product Review: Tri-O Waterproof Vibrating Couple’s Cock Ring

It’s been a while since I’ve done a straight up product review so I’m a little giddy right now.  Actually a few days ago was when I was really excited — the best feeling is coming home to a box of goodies from Good Vibes!

I’m still adjusting to the wife thing and refuse to lose the spice in our bedroom behavior!  Cowboy is always a good sport so we got the cock rings out that night.  We have other cock rings but none that show love for the balls!  Cowboy particular likes a good ball cupping so this Tri-O does my job for me so I can enjoy other things…..like having an orgasm??!  Let me warn you, the dual vibrators are pretty strong so it took a few seconds to get used to the intensity.  I wouldn’t suggest using an intensifying cream or anything like that.  There are two holes, two vibrating units and little grapes (not kidding) that are there for clitoral pleasure.  There is also a taint tickler!  Cowboy felt a little too ‘tied up’ because we used every function of the ring including the ‘BALLER’ ring which is an extra attachment for his balls to fit inside.  He was feeling a little restricted after a few minutes and requested that I do my usual ‘ball cup’ that he preferred.  Overall we liked it and the concept of it but would suggest monitoring the BALLER ring to be not as tight.

The price is only $19 which I thought was pretty affordable, and it’s waterproof so lube it up!

You can get your own Tri-O Cock Ring at GoodVibes HERE.

Let me know your thoughts or do you have a favorite cock ring?  I’d love to hear suggestions.

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Loose Lips Sink Ships

You all know the saying ‘Loose Lips Sink Ships’?  Meaning that blabbing freely may give useful information to someone unintentionally.  For this post, I’ve thought of it for another reason.  In this case, having a loose vagina will sink ships (aka your man’s ship if I must spell it out).  There are thousands of women out there who have gone through significant life changes such as giving birth, menopause and growing older.  After these occurrences, your lady bits might not have the elasticity it once did.

Shunga Erotic Art just launched their solution to this problem and named it ‘Hold Me Tight’.  The Hold Me Tight gel is designed to tone up loose vagina muscles and create a tighter embrace on their partner.  Brilliant!  And best of all, it’s made with natural ingredients with astringent properties which helps prevent bacterial and fungal infections, eliminates unpleasant odor and restores vaginal lubrication.

Hold Me Tight retails for $29.95 (30ml) – BUY IT HERE

This is a much more affordable way around the Vaginoplasty surgury!

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen


 

 

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Full House

Over the weekend we babysat my little niece (who is the cutest thing in the whole world) while her parents took a much needed night off.  Cowboy and I loved having a young little spirit in our place but boy was she a handful!  I couldn’t take my eyes off of her for a second and along with the other two kids, we couldn’t give them all the attention they were begging for.  After watching Elmo Potty Time 5 times, cleaning a few diapers and managing to give her a bath it was bed time.  Immediately after she went down, we put the other 2 kids to bed and both of us collapsed on the couch exhausted.  And….Cowboy wants to get frisky.  My niece is sleeping in our room with the door cracked and the other two kids had just gone to bed.  Really??  He couldn’t wait until the next day when our place would be empty?? So, I can’t say no….come on I have a sex blog!  You think I’m going to turn down some action?  We love the thrill of having to be very quiet as to not wake up the baby.  It was a success!

Have you ever gone at it with a full house or kids in a ‘too close for comfort’ distance?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Channel 96

There is absolutely NO excuse for my lack of posts….OK maybe….I GOT MARRIED!!!!  I’m so excited to be home and especially excited to get back to updating all of you on my sexscapades and new toy reviews.  For our honeymoon we decided to go to an all-inclusive resort in the Caribbean because our purpose was to relax and not worry about a thing.  It took a few days to unwind from our wedding week and get used to being Mr. & Mrs.  Upon arrival, they had glasses of champagne, a big ‘HONEYMOONERS’ sign on our door and a fully stocked mini-bar in our room filled with Presidente beer.  Within minutes, we knew this would be the best vacation ever.  We had a sliding glass door next to our bed which led to a hammock and steps from the pool & swim up bar – total heaven.   After we got settled in, we popped on the TV and found ourselves stuck on channel 96 (the porn channel).  Previously, I didn’t understand the appeal of porn – it just didn’t do it for me.  Maybe it was the abnormal noises, the animalistic sex acts or just the bad acting.  However, this all changed when I gave channel 96 a shot.  The first one was about men that happened to have sex with their 18 year old neighbor — they really made the girls look innocent.  For instance the man was mowing the lawn and happen to be dripping in sweat and the 18 y/o neighbor gave him some fresh lemonade….really?!  Well, once they got naked it was pretty hot!  Cowboy and I were going at it like rabbits all week thanks to channel 96.   The funniest part was when we were floating around in the pool, we heard at least 3 side conversations of other couples discovering the porn channel!  Love it!  Well, now we’re back home and have invested in some new porns to keep here at home to keep our honeymoon memories with us.

Do you have any good porn suggestions since I’m such a newbie?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Q & A: Women and Orgasms

I got an interesting email the other day and he was nice enough to let me share his question with all of my lovely readers!
ANONYMOUS:  I am 34 married 13 years.  We have sex 3-4x a week, I enjoy it, she enjoys it, sometimes its wildly passionate sometimes its run of the mill sex…i imagine that is common, not every night can it be blow your mind sex.  I do not think my wife orgasms, and if she does its not often at all.  I pay attention to her, oral, finger, you name it.  During intercourse she tells me what she likes and I try to give it to her.  Personally I think the issue is she herself doesn’t know how to orgasm.  She never masturbates (and claims she NEVER has).  I want her to first try masturbating herself to orgasm and then when she is ready possibly use a toy (by herself, with me, whatever she wants).  Can you get me advice how to do this?
VIBIN’ VIXEN:  Well first of all, thank you for your question and that’s a very good one.  And second, CONGRATS on having such a healthy sex life!  I am very excited to hear that although your wife doesn’t orgasm, she has sex 3-4 times a week — she deserves a pat on the back for that one (or some cunnilingus I’m sure would do).   I completely agree with you that masturbation is the key to her reaching an orgasm.  There is a small percentage (10%) of women out there who never had an orgasm through sex or masturbation but not to fear, there are a few tricks to try!  Ask her if she feels comfortable enough masturbating with your ‘help’.  You can hold the vibrator, tickle her clitoris and kiss her neck so that she begins to feel ‘OK’ about touching herself.  Let her know how sexy it is and how great she looks doing it so she doesn’t get embarrased.
Now for the tricks…..
One good way to orgasm is to have her tense her body including her kegals.  Almost like contractions, go in waves in and out of tensing those muscles.  Another great trick is to relax and let your wife know you can be there for hours rotating toys, stimulation and whatever she needs.  Just play around in bed, have fun and let her mind stop so the orgasms can take over her body.
And some more tricks that you can do to her….
Don’t forget the clit!  Most women need stimulation of the clitoris. This is our part that is most sensitive and must never be ignored 🙂
Women are emotional creatures….we need love, romance, cuddling and a good setting.  Sometimes when I can’t orgasm I think about how much I love Cowboy and I’m there.
Ask your wife what she wants!  It could be very simple like ‘move your finger to the right a tiny bit’ but if you don’t speak up you’ll never know.
If you come before her,  try to gather up some energy to kiss and stimulate her, so that she can try to get the big O too.
Please stay in touch and let me know if any of my suggestions work for your wife.
VV readers — if you have any input for Anonymous please comment below!
PS – Only a few days left for the OOO Condoms Giveaway!
xoxo
Vibin’ Vixen

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