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Real Housewives Making Real Sex Toys

I can’t say I’ve ever watched the Real Housewives of Atlanta, but this was sent to me and it definitely peaked my interest.  This just proves that anyone can do a collaboration!

Real Housewives of Atlanta star, Kandi Burruss, has debuted a new line of pleasure products for women and New York’s premier boutique for toys and accessories, Babeland, is hosting a launch event with her next week. At a ladies’ night themed event, Kandi will meet customers, talk about the toys and dish on some of her experiences on Real Housewives of Atlanta. The Bedroom Kandi line is elegant, sophisticated, discreet, and taps into her background as a songwriter and performer. Above is her ‘Kandi Kisses’ which is disguised as a lipstick. Leave it lying around and your friends will think you’ve got the latest Chanel shade! If you’re in the NY area, check it out and let me know how it goes!

Thursday, December 15, 7pm, Free Babeland SoHo, 43 Mercer Street

Would a celebrity endorsement of a sex toy make you want it more?  What about if a celebrity designed it?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

 

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Product Review: Tri-O Waterproof Vibrating Couple’s Cock Ring

It’s been a while since I’ve done a straight up product review so I’m a little giddy right now.  Actually a few days ago was when I was really excited — the best feeling is coming home to a box of goodies from Good Vibes!

I’m still adjusting to the wife thing and refuse to lose the spice in our bedroom behavior!  Cowboy is always a good sport so we got the cock rings out that night.  We have other cock rings but none that show love for the balls!  Cowboy particular likes a good ball cupping so this Tri-O does my job for me so I can enjoy other things…..like having an orgasm??!  Let me warn you, the dual vibrators are pretty strong so it took a few seconds to get used to the intensity.  I wouldn’t suggest using an intensifying cream or anything like that.  There are two holes, two vibrating units and little grapes (not kidding) that are there for clitoral pleasure.  There is also a taint tickler!  Cowboy felt a little too ‘tied up’ because we used every function of the ring including the ‘BALLER’ ring which is an extra attachment for his balls to fit inside.  He was feeling a little restricted after a few minutes and requested that I do my usual ‘ball cup’ that he preferred.  Overall we liked it and the concept of it but would suggest monitoring the BALLER ring to be not as tight.

The price is only $19 which I thought was pretty affordable, and it’s waterproof so lube it up!

You can get your own Tri-O Cock Ring at GoodVibes HERE.

Let me know your thoughts or do you have a favorite cock ring?  I’d love to hear suggestions.

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Q & A: Women and Orgasms

I got an interesting email the other day and he was nice enough to let me share his question with all of my lovely readers!
ANONYMOUS:  I am 34 married 13 years.  We have sex 3-4x a week, I enjoy it, she enjoys it, sometimes its wildly passionate sometimes its run of the mill sex…i imagine that is common, not every night can it be blow your mind sex.  I do not think my wife orgasms, and if she does its not often at all.  I pay attention to her, oral, finger, you name it.  During intercourse she tells me what she likes and I try to give it to her.  Personally I think the issue is she herself doesn’t know how to orgasm.  She never masturbates (and claims she NEVER has).  I want her to first try masturbating herself to orgasm and then when she is ready possibly use a toy (by herself, with me, whatever she wants).  Can you get me advice how to do this?
VIBIN’ VIXEN:  Well first of all, thank you for your question and that’s a very good one.  And second, CONGRATS on having such a healthy sex life!  I am very excited to hear that although your wife doesn’t orgasm, she has sex 3-4 times a week — she deserves a pat on the back for that one (or some cunnilingus I’m sure would do).   I completely agree with you that masturbation is the key to her reaching an orgasm.  There is a small percentage (10%) of women out there who never had an orgasm through sex or masturbation but not to fear, there are a few tricks to try!  Ask her if she feels comfortable enough masturbating with your ‘help’.  You can hold the vibrator, tickle her clitoris and kiss her neck so that she begins to feel ‘OK’ about touching herself.  Let her know how sexy it is and how great she looks doing it so she doesn’t get embarrased.
Now for the tricks…..
One good way to orgasm is to have her tense her body including her kegals.  Almost like contractions, go in waves in and out of tensing those muscles.  Another great trick is to relax and let your wife know you can be there for hours rotating toys, stimulation and whatever she needs.  Just play around in bed, have fun and let her mind stop so the orgasms can take over her body.
And some more tricks that you can do to her….
Don’t forget the clit!  Most women need stimulation of the clitoris. This is our part that is most sensitive and must never be ignored 🙂
Women are emotional creatures….we need love, romance, cuddling and a good setting.  Sometimes when I can’t orgasm I think about how much I love Cowboy and I’m there.
Ask your wife what she wants!  It could be very simple like ‘move your finger to the right a tiny bit’ but if you don’t speak up you’ll never know.
If you come before her,  try to gather up some energy to kiss and stimulate her, so that she can try to get the big O too.
Please stay in touch and let me know if any of my suggestions work for your wife.
VV readers — if you have any input for Anonymous please comment below!
PS – Only a few days left for the OOO Condoms Giveaway!
xoxo
Vibin’ Vixen

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Bachelorette Nookie

I’m heading to New Orleans tonight for my bachelorette party (whoot whoot) and am beyond excited.  Last night, Cowboy was determined to make sure I was more than satisfied before letting me loose.  He took me to dinner, was overly lovey-dovey and super sweet.  When we got home, he was waiting in bed smothered in Shunga’s Male Desensitizer Spray and had Shunga’s Secret Garden Orgasm Gel , Shunga’s Rain of Love G-Spot Arousal Cream and Lelo’s Green Liv.  Last night was all about me!  He went to down with the vibe and my gels and creams kicked in almost instantly — it was fantastic!  Cowboy’s tactics worked because all I’ll be thinking about our last night nookie.

Have you ever gone on a vacation and your man was dead set on pleasing you?  Or vice versa?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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Royal Wedding: Kate and William Bedroom Behavior

Is it just me or is everyone else sick of The Royal Wedding?  I mean, it would be pretty awesome to become a princess and all, but do millions of people need to be pre-occupied by this?  Ehhh I would rather guess what they’re doing AFTER the wedding….I guess that’s why I have a sex blog.

So here is what I imagine they did after the carriage pulled into their palace and William carried Kate over the threshold as his wife.

Personally, I think they got down and dirty long before the wedding night.  Kate seems like she’s got a wild side to her.  For their big night to consummate the marriage, I think they did it very traditionally.  No dildos, no vibrators, not even lube.  Come on, the queen in training needs to keep it classy!

What do you think happened behind closed doors?

xoxo

Vibin’ Vixen

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ANME Roundup

I never knew the meaning of awesomeness fully until this weekend when I had the opportunity to go to the ANME ‘the show and tell in adult novelties’ tradeshow.  It took place in the unassuming Marriot Hotel in Burbank right next to the airport.  Being my ‘first time at the rodeo’ I had NO idea what to expect and my mind was racing on my way there ….will there be strippers hanging from poles and dildos shoved in my face upon entry??  To my surprise it was very normal and much like the fashion world I live in, switch out designer dresses for cyber-skin ass masturbators.

I scoured the entire show and I bring to you my favorite Adult Novelty Items on the market!!  Drumroll please……

1) Sex in the Shower

This is one of the best inventions I have ever seen!  I am probably one of thousands that can’t find the right position in the shower.   My friend, Housewife Blogger, has a similar time in the bathtub. This dandy invention gives you support for your feet and handles so you don’t slip & slide and/or kill yourself trying to get off.  I can’t seem to have a good time having shower sex since I can’t get comfortable — but with Sportsheets’ genius invention I stand corrected.

2) Fun Factory

I was introduced to this line YEARS ago and always thought their branding was so great and loved the way they made sex toys ‘cute’.  My two favorites that they displayed include the YOOO which is the image that looks like 3 balls.  I still can’t get over the design!  I love it. The YOOO comes in a variety of bright colors (vitamin, candy rose, dark blue and fresh green) and its purpose is to arouse in 2 spots at once whether it be your sore shoulder, nips or the vajayjay.  It even has a turbo booster — woohoo!  The other toy that immediately caught my eye was the COBRA LIBRE because it is finally a toy for the man that prefers not to have a dildo up his ass.  The bulldozer looking toy is a masturbator and is filled with soft silicone that vibrates around him.  Ladies – this is perfect for a night when you’re feeling a little lazy.

3) Kama Sutra’s Coconut Pineapple Intimate Caress Shave Cream

I was lucky enough to get a sample of this from the folks at Kama Sutra!  This isn’t out on the market yet but I can guarantee it will be a huge hit once the stores get it in stock.  The flavor I chose, Coconut-Pineapple, smells good enough to eat!  The purpose of this cream is to shave your intimate parts – it’s made with Aloe Vera and Jojoba Seed Oil to make the erotic zone smooth and sensual.

4) Topco’s Hardware Line ‘Lay Some Pipe’

I thought this was very clever!  Topco, one of the adult industries biggest players, came out with this line called Hardware.  It’s for women that have dirty car garage fetishes:  they like the sweat, grease and engine fumes but now Hardware has brought it to them in a safer way.   No more dirty screwdrivers inside you — now you can use their line to get that same effect.   The photo above is their industrial strength knee pads so no more scuffed knees fellas.

5) The Amazing Hot Heart Massager by Lover’s Choice

This brought me straight back to 1985 when I would use my moms heaters just like Lover’s Choice.  The reusable heater can be cracked an recracked for endless massage pleasure.  You can have it say ‘I Love You’ or ‘XOXO’ – cute Valentine’s Day gift.

6) Baci Lingerie Eyelashes

Baci not only has sexy and affordable lingerie, but also AMAZING faux eyelashes I went nuts for.  They have over 25 different styles from feathers to rhinestones.  They’re only a few bucks each — you can’t beat that!  Their ad campaign and marketing collateral is very high fashion and gorgeous.  They just went through a complete re-brand and I’ve got to give them Kudos because the line looks fantastic.

So these were my favorite finds at the ANME show — I can’t wait to go back next season to see what’s new.  Which product mentioned above are you dying to try?

xoxo,

Vibin’ Vixen

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Start the new year with a BANG

Some people say eating pork & sauerkraut is good luck, others say black-eyed peas and collard greens.  I say a great lay is exactly what will put you on the track to success for 2011.  OK OK I’m a little superstitious so I also made a crock pot full of pork & sauerkraut for New Years day.  This weekend we finally stopped everything and caught up with each other.   We cooked, watched movies, cranked up the heat and had sex in almost every room. I’m going back to work today completely relaxed and ready to take on 2011.

There is still time to get in a good lay before ‘life’ begins again….so grab your partner and get laid!  Or if you don’t have a partner, get your favorite vibrator!

xoxo,

Vibin’ Vixen

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